I find it hard to forgive people based on what it is that they have done to me. Ususally on the minor events that happen I don't really mind it, but if it is something major it could take me awhile. "Not forgiving someone is like drinking the poison and waiting for the other man to die."
When I ponder about this statement I tend to agree with it. What this statement means is that holding grudges effect yourself more than the person that your holding the grudge on. I say this because when you hold a grudge against somebody it changes your mindset and makes you go out of the way to get them back. It makes you do things you wouldn't normally do. This in turn makes that "dieing" part of the quote seem to make sense.
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